November 21, 2022
Features of their core mission went over my head. Do you know what I am talking about? Read more to find out.
Since I am curious as heck, I have heard about Bumble but only about its name and its origin as a dating app. So naturally was thrown away in the category of my brain where it says: another dating app with a different name. Recently I also installed it and started roaming through all the familiar features they have like they do on Tinder (and any other for that matter): swiping, profile structure, super likes, hidden profiles, you know the gist of it.
One big thing that made me say out loud: Hmm, that's different, was the fact that I could reach the end of the swiping deck in one day (in the BFF category in minutes). That never happened to me in Tinder or any other app while researching or using it. That got me even more curious to explore all and check what else is there.
Bumble is a platform and community that creates empowering connections in love, life, and work. We promote accountability, equality, and kindness in an effort to end misogyny and re-write archaic gender roles. On Bumble, women always make the first move. - Bumble Mission Statement
Well, that same feature where women have to message first went over my head, and it did for more than a few days. I know, I felt kinda stupid yes. I admit that there were some prompts when matching with a person, but I ignored them as the usual "Be proactive" nudge that other apps have as well. Remember my bias and putting the app in the same category as the rest, well yes, here is the result of that. A few days of swiping and wondering why people don't reach out first got me to the situation of meeting with a climbing male enthusiast that shared with me his experience and perspective about the app. He thought I was working for Bumble, because of the open end questions I asked him. *laughs in opportunity* For me this was a great experience in terms of having an informal user interview with someone that is part of the majority of the users using Bumble.
Once I got to the "AHA!" moment I got into a different approach to using the app and exploring its features. For those of you who have used dating applications, I will compare it with Tinder since it's his primary competitor. And since they already have an interesting past together.
Disclaimer: none of the apps has a goal of getting the user off the app (to uninstall it), hence them finding a partner or friendship as quickly as possible is not a primary goal for them. So bear that in mind if you just starting to use them. Those who have found partners through such applications are the exception, not the rule. To be able to really find someone you match with and be on the same page, well that's kinda hard, especially through only texting. Tinder is generally considered more for casual entanglements (hookups) and Bumble is supposedly promoting healthy relationships in all the 3 categories they have: dating, friendship, and professional networking.
Now that we have got a bigger picture of the two mobile apps let's see what is different and what is similar between the two.
Similarities:
Differences:
My experience so far with Bumble: I started using the app on 31.10.22 and currently still have it installed.
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